I tell you something just feels very liberating about my new age. I just feel like at this point in my life, I don’t really give a damn what people think about FAB anymore. And by “people”, am referring to those negative people who have nothing good to say anyway and will always be judgemental about how you’re living your life. Trust me when I tell you, in the past, I actually did care about being a “good” girl”, lmao.
I know some of you might say “nah” but I really was a very good geh in many ways, hahahahaa. I honestly was! Morally upright in many ways….I know it’s hard to believe, lol
I cared how people perceived me. I could not say NO to people. I spent the last few decades being prim and proper and trying to fit in and live up to expectation. I am glad I tried to do that, ‘cos now I know I it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks or says, as long as you’re happy and not hurting anyone in the process then it’s all good.
I will say NO when I want to and YES……Go On Soun, when I want to. I will go for what I want without any fear or fervor. I will do what makes me happy. I am breaking the shackles of societal expectation & sycophancy and saying “omasi kwam I DoH sHiRT” as in if I like, I tear my shirt….e no concern anyone, lol.
Am sure you get my point, hahahaha!! To God be the glory! ~ FABuloso